The school counsellor has asked to meet you.
Here's how to go in open, not defensive.
Being called in can feel like an accusation. Counsellors usually ask because they've noticed something early and want to work with you.
Try saying
- Thank you for reaching out. What have you noticed?
- What can we do at home that would help with what you're seeing at school?
Try not to say
'There's nothing wrong with my child.' It ends the conversation before you know what the concern is.
When to get help
If the counsellor suggests a referral to a psychologist or paediatrician, follow it up within a couple of weeks rather than waiting for the next term.





